"When ever my cousins and I get together we always fill each other in on new things happening in out lives. recently, my cousin was telling me about her new boyfriend, he sounded really nice but the way she would describe him just didn't fit well with me. He seems very controlling and wants to know where she is all the time. If he doesn't approve of who she's with, she has to leave. She says he does that because he really cares about her but I think its a little too much. She even joked around saying she felt like she had to 'walk on eggshells' when she was around him and I don't think that's right. How do I tell her without being mean or offending her?"