If you truly love someone and they give orders of what they want you do to do, then it means you are a robot. If the person makes you change who you are, then you are too weak. If they make you blame someone for something that person didn't do, then, are they really a good partner? That's why God gave us minds of our own, to think, to speak, to control ourselves and let us have our peaceful life. Even if that person hurt you badly, God told us to forgive that person in order for him to forgive us. Even if we create enemies, we are the only ones to destroy them. Each individual has the right to speak, to listen, and have our own feelings. Life has many challenges and we need outsmart those challenges. If you believe this is true, send it to friend you believe they will read this. We have a remote control to control ourselves, not for others control us.