In light of Hispanic Heritage Month, I would like to share my experience of being a proud Latina.
But before this there was a time in my life where I was confused and hurt, to the point of being embarrassed, of being Latina. I felt this all the way up to high school. I didn't get the racist remarks that were being thrown around, especially hurtful comments coming from other Latinos.
I don't think anybody wants to be targeted just because of hate full sterotypes. So growing up and listening to people blaming things like the economy on immigrants or "go back to your country," was pretty hard to swallow.
The way that I began to accept and see my heritage in a positive light was to respect and admire my parents. They are the epitome of hard workers in a country where their heritage is ridiculed. Once I realized the amazing sacrifice they made for my family, it was the moment when I stopped being ashamed. This of course applies to all parents from Latin American countries, where some of us wouldn't even be here.
The next step was something that I already followed. This was appreciating the beauty of my culture. I mean in the telenovelas are the bomb, well some of them, especially comedic ones like La Fea Más Bella. I've always loved Mexico's beautiful scenery and its various cities.
Another thing that helped me was to know that one's culture is so much more than what the haters have to say, who really are just full of ignorance. When you are really full of positivity there is not much to pull you out of there.