Today in the morning a radio station in El Paso, brought up the discussion that many people are still talking to their ex, even though they are in a new relationship. Many callers called in and gave their opinion.
Mostly all the callers said that you should not talk to your ex because it can cause arguments with your recent lovers and the issue of trust is out the window. They also mentioned that if you do not want to bring unnecessary problems into the relationship then the simple solution would be to not talk them.
Yet, there were some that said that you should still be allowed talking to your ex. Reason for this is because they believed that there is no harm talking to your ex because if the both of you started out as friends then why lose a friendship with that person.
After hearing both sides of the arguments and listening to them, it made me agree with the callers that were against talking to their ex, because what if old feeling for that person comes back. What happens then? What happens to your recent lover? Do you guys break up?
It may be hard to accept a break up, but sometimes the best solution is to move on. It like what Johnny Cage said, “If you guys broke up for the person, it’s because there was reason for that break up. So, why still talk to that person? That is why they call it a break up.”